Finding a Fuckbuddy

I had a conversation with a friend last night about how much fun it is to have sex, and that it really isn't a big deal. However, it is extremely important to me, so maybe this is why I am on here, and the other sites some of you have seen me at.

So here's the question of the day: If sex isn't such a big deal, why is fucking around with someone outside of your relationship called "cheating"? I hate the word "cheat", and don't want to be associated with it in any way. Let me explain: I don't want to be called a cheater, so how about calling me someone that is just "experimental"? (if I actually acted upon any chances that I have had). I have never taken part in anything like that, but am growing more and more curious about it every day, especially if I meet the right person to play with.

I am all for both parties in a relationship being happy enough to stay together forever if they love each other. Some say that if you love someone, you shouldn't take part in extra-marital relations, just because you have a ring on your finger and you made that commitment. But what if one of you loses interest completely? I don't think that it is a reason to call it quits, but it may be a reason to "experiment". If this experimentation can be kept secret from everybody and leads to both parts of a relationship being happy, then what is the big deal? I have been asking myself this question a lot lately. Maybe I am trying to justify what I want to do, I don't know.

I do know that if i did experiment, there would have to be some strict rules that I follow in order to choose a partner:

I think I would only fuck around with a married woman. The reason being is that they understand the importance of discretion. They won't fuck with my personal life, and I won't fuck with theirs. Personal information would be allowed, based on how much I feel I can trust you, but is not necessary to fool around.

They must be clean. Both hygiene and 100% disease free. I know that there are a lot people out there that have slept with many more people than I have, but that doesn't mean that they are dirty. I just want to know that they are clean and know how to protect themselves, and would expect them to respect my wish to do the same.

Once I know that they are not going to give me something is going to make my dick turn colors, I would only consider women that wants to not only experiment with different partners, but wants to try new things that they may not be allowed to try with their spouse. After all, why would I risk my relationship just to have the same sex that I have had before. I'm open to trying anything at least a couple times (in case it goes wrong the first time, of course!), and would want to really experiment, and get as nasty or kinky as you would allow. Maybe you have been wanting to really let yourself go during sex and get crazy, but don't feel comfortable doing that with your husband. Trust me, I know how you feel. There are many things that I want to try out that I probably will never be able to, unless I find someone to "play" with.

A New Shave

I got back from dinner tonight and didn't really have anything to do, so I decided to take a shower. I love being in a hotel when it comes to getting clean, because you can take your time in the shower/bath and not worry about hot water running out. I was probably in there for about 30 minutes, just standing under the blazing hot shower, allowing the bathroom to fill up with steam. While I was in there, I took the time to shave, which always turns me on. However, I just relaxed and decided to save my cum for later on tonight. I'm not sure when I'll get off, but I am going to have to at least once tonight. Now I am just sitting here naked, all nice and warm, having an ice cold beer. Wishing it was you that my fingers were on, and not my computer. Here's a look:


Maybe later I will post another, hopefully displaying a little more excitement rather than relaxation.

The Perfect Body

This is a pic of my idea a perfect body. Not super skinny, healthy, and all the curves in the right places. Those hips drive me crazy!


If you want to see more of this gallery, the link is here.

Phone Sex

So I have been fucking around on yahoo late at night, and everyone that has done the same knows how hard it is to find someone fun to actually talk to there. I have recently gotten this urge for phone sex, which would be really easy to pull off for me since I am in a hotel and I can just give the 800 number with my direct room number to someone. This way they don't have to worry about me seeing their number, and it won't show up on my phonebill. Perfect!

Now if I could only find someone that has the freedom to talk on the phone like I do. Most people that I talked to late last night either weren't into it or had roomates/other people at home with them, which was definitely a bummer. However, I did talk to someone that said tonight would be a better night for her, so hopefully I can hear her cum for me.

Eventually I gave up and went to my one of my favorite porn links, your daily girls. There's always a good variety of pics there and there are no surprises from viruses or anything like that. Gotta be careful where you find your free porn!

Can You Believe It?

A Monday on the road, and no orgasm? Yep, thats right! I guess I worked too hard yesterday, and never actually spent the time to get off. Of course that means that all I can think about today is when I am going to be able to cum next, which will probably be sometime early evening. (If I do it now, I won't be able to finish the little bit of work I have left to do before the "workday" is over). I did wake up last night at about 5 in the morning and wanted to masturbate, but also thought about saving up for later today. To tease myself even more, I just took off the boxers & tank top that I was wearing and went back to bed completely nude. Tonight, I should have some fun.

Sex Toy Fun

When we first started having sex on a regular basis, we tried a couple different toys that my wife bought a sex toy party that her friend was having. We did not have a lot of money to spare, so we only got cheap toys that seemed to break pretty quickly, and then we just kind of gave up on the idea of toys. Recently, since the physical intimacy has not been there nearly as much as I want it to be, I went out and bought a decent silicon gel vibrator and a bottle of lube for us to play with. We have only used it a few times, but it is such a turn on for me. One of these times was this past weekend:

We had just got back from the bar, both a little bit tipsy. My wife had on some thin pants that really gripped her ass nicely. She was laying on her stomach on the floor with the small of her back showing. I could not let her lie there alone any longer. I'm not sure if she knew that she was teasing me or not, but I wanted to take her pants off immediately. I went up behind her and laid on top of her, giving her neck a nice slow kiss as I brushed her hair away from her face. I slid my hands down the sides of her body, gently rubbing her tits as I worked my way down to her hips. I slid my fingers towards the middle of her body as I got down to her stomach, and then out and down her legs. My hands wandered up her inner thighs and up to her ass, and then down between her legs, right on her pussy. I had one hand rubbing between her legs as the other was squeezing her ass. I told her to go into the bedroom.

As she undressed herself, I got out our new toy. She was laying there naked on the bed, and I climbed up right next to her. We started making out quite a bit more than we usually do, and she wrapped one of her legs around mine as I reached around and started rubbing her ass. There is nothing better than the feeling of being completely naked with someone you love, and having their body pressed up tightly against you. I eventually rolled up on top of her, and pushed her legs apart. My cock was hard by now, and I teased the outer edge of her pussy lips with it. I backed away when I heard her moan; I wanted her to want me in her so bad. I grabbed the bottle of lube and put a little drip just above her pussy, and watched it roll down into her, making her pussy even more wet. I started to push her pussy lips apart with two of my fingers, rubbing the lube all over her, and exposing her clit. I started up the vibe and she spread her legs apart even further. I held it so that the tip of the toy was directly teasing her clit, and the top half of her pussy lips were being pushed apart. I had one hand on her toy, and I was using my other hand to push my fingers into her pussy, underneath where the vibe was throbbing on her clit. I would reach up and hit her gspot with every few strokes, and leaned forward and nibbled on her nipples as I sucked tightly on them, moving back and forth. Even though the toy does a lot of work itself, I love to move it side to side to give her different sensations. It took some convincing, but I finally got her to take control of the toy herself. This made me rock hard. I took the wet mixture coming out of her pussy of half lube-half her juices and started rubbing my cock, patiently waiting for her to cum. As I played with my balls and stroked my cock slowly, I had a free hand to rub her tits. They fit so nicely into my hands; they are almost too big for me to fit. Absolutely beautiful. I could sense that she was getting closer: her body was shaking like crazy, her moans getting louder and more frequent, and she was starting to fuck the toy, pushing herself into it, picking herself up from the bed as she grinded the toy harder on her clit. After a few seconds, she dropped her toy, laid flat on her back, and sighed with a puddle of juices between her legs. She was breathing hard but wanted more. I laid down next to her and she climbed right on top of me. Her dripping we pussy slid right onto my throbbing cock with ease, and she immediately started moving up and down. I reach around and smacked her ass, and squeezed each side with both hands, and then moved my hands up to her waist guiding her motions as I thrusted upwards into her, trying to get as deep as I can. All 8 inches of me were buried in her, and she started to cum again. I was trying everything not to cum yet, and ended up shooting a huge load of cum into her as she came for a second time while riding me. I was so turned on that my cock was staying pretty hard and she kept on going for a few more minutes, grabbing onto my shoulders for leverage and my hands still on her hips. Once she could not move anymore, she collapsed onto me and our chests were together again. Only this time we were both on fire, sweating on each other, with nothing on our minds except pleasure. When she got up off of me, she left a huge trace of cum on my cock, along with a small puddle on the sheets just below my balls. I just stared at it and smiled, since I couldn't fucking move.